In my stash of connectors, I found the second connector that I ordered
The connector that is on the Fuel Pump Assembly (Tank Unit) is in fact the male (my info above was in error, thanks WVZR-1). It is GM 88861069, AC Delco PT2141.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00.../ref=as_int_dp
If you want to assemble a jumper from two replacement (new) connectors, take care to keep the wire sequences correct. The new connectors are pigtail sets that are not color coded.
The terminals are marked A - B - C - D The normal wiring ID is:
A - Black - DC Ground
B - Purple - Fuel gauge signal
C - Gray - Fuel Pump
D - Green/white - Fuel Pump
To make the crossover, switch the C and D terminals on one end of the jumper.
A-------------------------A
B-------------------------B
C---------\ /-------------C
D---------/ \-------------D
Jim